The Escalation Nobody Wins

Wed, 03 Jun 2026 21:13:52 -0400

I’ve been in the room. Multiple times. Multiple companies.

The security organization says no. Completely, categorically, by default. The posture isn’t “let’s figure out how to make this work safely.” It’s “this is forbidden until we’ve completed our review” where the review cycle is measured in quarters and the technology is shipping weekly. My mandate as a VP Engineering is to innovate, to move faster than competitors, to deliver on what the board is demanding. Both of us are right. Both of us escalate to the same C-suite executive, who makes a tie-breaking call based on incomplete information, and one side walks away having lost.

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The Escalation Nobody Wins